Standing during sex is perfect for the second trimester, since your bump isn’t *too* heavy yet, but you might not feel all that comfortable putting a ton of pressure on it, Laino says. But, because your center of gravity has changed (thanks to that burgeoning bump!), which can impact your balance, “it’s important to hold onto something during standing sex for support,” she adds. That’s what makes the stand and deliver position ideal: The non-pregnant partner holds onto the pregnant partner’s arms, providing support as they enter from behind.
If you want to keep things interesting, the non-pregnant partner can reach around and provide some clitoral stimulation as well. “Try spreading your legs out wide, as it helps with balance,” says Laino. “I would also recommend doing it next to the bed, in case [the pregnant person] falls over, so [they’re] falling onto the bed.” Remember, safety first!
How to do it: Both partners begin standing up, with the pregnant person in front of the non-pregnant person. Then, the pregnant partner bends over at the waist, and the non-pregnant partner enters them from behind while holding onto the pregnant person’s arms to provides extra support. If that isn’t comfortable for either or both partners, lean onto a bed, couch, or table instead.
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