How to Give in Ways That Benefit You and Your Well-Being
Prosocial spending and charitable giving bring numerous benefits, but simply writing a check out to a “good” cause may not confer all the same benefits as giving to a cause that specifically holds meaning for you.
And some evidence suggests that giving solely to boost your own well-being — what could be described as selfish prosocial spending — doesn’t provide the same health or well-being benefits, says Aknin.
“We found some evidence that prosocial acts are less rewarding when enacted for self-gain than when enacted for the benefit of others,” Aknin adds.
So, how can you give in a way that is good for the recipient and for you?
1. Give to Causes You Care About
There are hundreds of worthy charitable causes out there. But experts say people seem to get the most out of giving to causes they find personally meaningful.
“Prosocial spending is immensely personal,” Dunn says. “The decision for prosocial spending should be made freely and is not something that should be pushed by a friend, family member, or coworker.”
Put another way, if you’re giving money to a cause because your boss encourages it, or because a family member asked you to, it’s less likely to provide the same rewards or gratification as giving to a cause you chose and find meaningful.
2. Give in Ways That Let You See the Impact of Your Gift
A gift will likely mean more if you can see its impact, Aknin says. An example might be donating to a local charity or organization, where you can see those dollars being spent on new services or resources in your community.
“The key is to find opportunities for prosocial spending that let you see how your generosity is impacting a cause you care about,” says Dunn.
3. Give to Causes You’re Socially Connected To
The best kind of charitable gift should involve some kind of social connection, Dunn says.
Dunn’s research has found that relatedness, or the quality of enhancing social bonds and connections, is another key aspect of prosocial spending most beneficial to the giver.
Giving to a community you’re part of is an example of relatedness, as is giving to a project or initiative that a close friend is involved with. Your gift not only benefits that cause, but it’s also meaningful to that friend.
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